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hope & healing after an affair


Virginia E. Abell

  Affair Recovery Specialist  

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hope & healing after an affair


Virginia E. Abell

  Affair Recovery Specialist  

You are a Single Christian woman who fell in love with a married man...

and it has shattered your world.

You are someone who has always valued her integrity and her relationship with Christ, and your affair has shaken you to your core. You are well-respected and viewed as a role model in your community, which makes you even more afraid that you will be judged harshly and possibly rejected by those you love.  This is not the life you imagined for yourself.  The relationship is over, but you are heartbroken and you desperately want to move on and never look back. 


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I can help.

My name is Virginia E. Abell.  I am a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist.  I am a Relationship and Affair Recovery Specialist who helps single Christian women heal from the aftermath of infidelity, sort through their overwhelming emotions, and create a solid, personalized plan for repairing their heart and lives.  Working with me means that you will have the support you need to receive the hope and healing you desire.

I help my clients emotionally recover after falling in love with a married man while combating shame and realigning with their TRUE identity as a Christian woman of high integrity and value so that they can move on quickly and break free from the awful despair and hopelessness they are feeling right now.

why i'm different.   

I started out working with affair recovery as a marriage therapist.  What I found is that there was this "other woman' who was painted as this selfish monster who could care less about anyone else’s feelings.  But you’re not some floozy with no morals.  You are a teacher, a doctor, a lawyer, an accountant, a hair stylist.  You love your family and your friends and they love you.  They don’t know anything about this because, one, they would never understand, and two, they wouldn’t believe it in the first place because it is SO out of character for you.  

And that’s the hardest part, isn’t it?  It wouldn’t make sense to them because it doesn’t make sense to you.  I also discovered, that although the couples were in crisis, they still had each other.  You’re alone in this.  REALLY alone.  And that is a HUGE crisis that does not need to be overlooked.

My clients go from feeling confused, heartbroken, and alone to becoming the successful, high-achieving, and vibrant, Christian women they have worked their entire lives to be.

My method has allowed my clients to seriously fast-track their healing process, even if they can't stop thinking about him and they're still constantly going over every single detail in their head 24/7.  My clients are finally able to get over him once and for all, control their racing thoughts, and achieve a deep, spiritual alignment with Christ so that they can be completely available for a loving and God-centered relationship.

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client testimonials

Virginia was always attentive and offered solutions.  It was nice to have someone that cared so much help us through my hard times.  That made a huge difference.  It was nice to be able to be open with our circumstances and not feel strange about everything.  Virginia gave me that sense of support and caring attitude that helped out.  I wouldn't have changed a thing or wished for any other outcome.  While I would never want to revisit my situation, it is something that I had to meet head on and overcome.  It was such a pleasure to have Virginia help me along my journey.  While I never want to revisit that experience again, I know that anyone in that situation, or any other situation for that matter would be in the best hands to have her by their side and help them." -JH


Virginia made me feel understood and safe. She created a warm and open atmosphere where I felt free to open up about problems I was facing but hadn't told others.  I never felt judged or belittled when expressing my doubts, anxieties, or other thoughts I talked about.  I have and would highly recommend having sessions with Virginia if you are looking for a kind and caring coach. -MC


Perceptive. Wise. Patient. Compassionate. That's how I would describe Virginia.  She provides advice that is applicable weekly, so I can reach short-term goals as I continue to strive to meet my long-term goals. I'm truly fortunate to have found her! -KZ